Have you ever heard someone say, “That’s a boy’s job” or “That’s a girl’s chore”? Maybe you’ve felt like you couldn’t do something because of your gender. It’s easy to get confused by these traditional ideas about what boys and girls should do. But here’s a secret: your potential is bigger than any box someone tries to put you in!
For a long time, people believed that boys and girls had different roles in life. Boys were often expected to be strong, play sports, and do tasks like mowing the lawn or fixing things. Girls were expected to be nurturing, enjoy activities like cooking and cleaning, and take care of the home. These old-fashioned ideas, called gender roles, are no longer relevant. Today, we know that what you can do has nothing to do with whether you are a boy or a girl.
Think about it: your curiosity, your creativity, and your skills are unique to you. Do you love to build things, solve puzzles, or tell stories? Do you enjoy helping others, taking care of plants, or creating art? These are your interests, and they are what truly matter. Whether you’re a boy who loves to bake or a girl who is passionate about coding, your interests are valid and worth pursuing.
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This idea of breaking free from gender roles starts right at home. Have you ever noticed that some chores are often given to boys and others to girls? Maybe your brother is always asked to take out the trash, while you’re always asked to wash the dishes. It’s time to change that! Household chores are for everyone. A boy can learn to cook a delicious meal, and a girl can learn how to fix a leaky water tap. By sharing all the responsibilities at home, you learn new skills and help your family work together as a team.
Embracing your potential means saying “yes” to every opportunity that comes your way, regardless of what others might think. If there’s a club at school you want to join, an instrument you want to learn, or a sport you want to play, go for it! Don’t let old-fashioned ideas about gender hold you back. The world needs people who are brave enough to be themselves and to follow their passions.
So, the next time someone tries to tell you what you “should” do because of your gender, remember this: your potential is limitless. You are capable of anything you set your mind to. Don’t let anyone else define who you are. Embrace every opportunity, follow your heart, and be proud of all the amazing things you can do.
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By Geoffrey Arich