Bishop Michael Wanderi has sharply criticised Pastor Victor Kanyari over remarks he delivered during the burial ceremony of the late gospel singer Betty Bayo, saying they were out of place and disrespectful for the sombre occasion.
Addressing the congregation, Bishop Wanderi warned Kanyari against turning a burial into a spectacle. He stressed that the service was meant to honour the life of the late singer and comfort her grieving family, not to “excite” mourners.
“My daughter Sky loves to play. Since you walked in, have you seen her playing? What is it that would make you laugh until all your teeth show, yet the children are crying and mourning?” Wanderi asked, highlighting the contrast between the family’s grief and the laughter triggered by Kanyari.
He went on to reprimand the pastor for what he described as a careless mixing of emotions at a highly sensitive moment. “What would make you jump around and appear as if you’re celebrating… as if you wanted Betty to die? Stop mixing feelings like that, people of God,” he added, urging mourners and fellow clergy to maintain decorum.
Wanderi reminded the congregation that the focus should remain firmly on the departed and the bereaved family. “Weigh your words, guard your emotions, don’t excite us… everyone should understand who is the centre of interest,” he said, warning that the emotional tone of a funeral should not be compromised for theatrics or unintended entertainment.
Wanderi, one of the clergy presiding over the service, appeared visibly irritated by Kanyari’s tone and delivery.
His rebuke came shortly after Kanyari’s address, which unexpectedly drew laughter, screams and applause from sections of the mourners, creating a confusing emotional atmosphere at a moment meant for solemn reflection.
Kanyari’s earlier comments, though not malicious, were delivered with a lightness many felt was inappropriate for the setting.
His humorous expressions prompted enthusiastic reactions but also discomfort among clergy and mourners who believed the moment required restraint.