A couple arguing. (Courtesy/iStock) I have come across “educated” people giving advice to their “friends” that “if you are not comfortable in that marriage, just leave and look for comfort elsewhere.” What these so-called educated and sophisticated people often fail to tell their friends is that sometimes they could be the cause of the lack of comfort in the relationships. And if they move on to the next relationship before they identify and deal effectively with the cause of the lack of comfort that they inflict on their partners, their situation will never change for the better at all. They…